How to build a vision?

I’m sure you are aware of the hype on social media about creating a business, setting goals, mental health awareness, success mindset and entrepreneurship development, but what binds them together is building a vision.

Watch the video below to see how you can build a vision for yourself 🙂

Feel free to contact me if you need to work on setting a vision for yourself. I’m always up for assisting people better their lives. 🙂

Writers Club 🦋

Hello there writers!

I’ve been receiving a lot of queries about the group that I’ve created on Facebook for writers to interact and network with others. So, here’s a little information for you all. 🙂

If you are looking for a one-stop platform to share your write-ups, receive honest feedback, engage in lots of healthy discussions, meet fellow writers & learn quality tips & suggestions that would help you grow, The MSW Writers Club is your place.

It is a group created for all the writers out there who want to grow and learn more about writing, blogging, poetry, storytelling & so on.

PS: I let writers post their writeups on the wall for feedbacks, and I conduct writing contests every week in addition to daily discussions 🙂

I believe that we all have something to teach and I’m using this platform for you to get the support that you deserve. I’m sure you don’t want to miss out on learning some amazing things and networking with real-time writers who would help you in your growth.

What can you expect from this group?

  • Daily discussions & interactions
  • Active engagement and networking
  • Constructive feedbacks & honest opinions
  • More exposure in the writers’ world
  • Editing and writing tips from me and other writers
  • Personal Development & lots of learning

Only topics Discussed in the group :

  • Poetry, Writing & Blogging
  • Self-love, Growth & Strength
  • Self-help books & Quotes
  • Mindset & Relationship Building
  • Personal Development

PS: This is a positive group so all I ask from you is to be kind & generous while dealing with others. 🌸

So, are you ready to grow?

Join the club today to learn the weekly agenda.

Looking forward to connecting with you. 🙂

Trauma

Remind me of the child that I was

when the wind just meant air

with nothing more but oxygen that we breathe

and an urge to do something great;

a long list of big dreams.

Take me back to those corny days

when I got cornered by the witches

for being admired for my big brown eyes

that they couldn’t accept;

making me question my worth,

ended up bullying,

Remind me of how hard it was

to overcome the loss of my friends

who turned out to be nothing

but random people shattering me

like a glass as if I wasn’t a mirror

to show them their reality.

Remind me of that young girl

who was traumatized by judgments and

felt misunderstood in the huge crowds,

trying to figure out an escape

and leave everything behind.

Cut to the amazing person

that I forgot I have always been,

who now stands tall and straight

with her eyes on the prize

and the crown on her head

with nothing but victory on her mind.

Peace.

When the chaos of life overshadows me with the pain and misery,

I know there’s one person I can turn to in a blink.

Dreams tend to become the reality; I know

But who knew,

the reality would just get better than my dreams?

I imagined a life of calm and peace for me

And nothing short have I now recieved.

It’s not a fairytale.

Not some other disney princess crying for a prince.

Just a girl with an immense love for a guy

who never fails to treat her like a Queen.

My world has shattered into a millions pieces before

But I picked them up to become the new me.

Growth is about loving yourself,

But also to let others be there for you when you are in need.

I pushed people away for the sake of my sanity

But I realised; it wasn’t all about the crowd,

but my inner self who had lost the will to BE.

All this time, I wasted on loving others;

I forgot about the ones who were in love with me.

But I end this pattern now

and let him stand right next to me.

I see why nothing worked with others.

Why I wondered if I’ll ever get back what I give.

To be in love is all about staying with him

for better or for worse.

Tell me love,

Are you too at peace ?

Comfort.

So many stories to tell.

So much to write about.

Numerous situations,

just couldn’t get myself out.

Broken stars

craving embrace of the dark.

People begging

for the sake of their heart.

Countless people I met,

a few I pushed away

while others straight-away left.

Somehow,

I find myself

keeping my thoughts inside.

I wonder why,

knowing myself feels

way more comforting

than someone else claiming

they’ve been aware

all this while.

Heal.

And the pain suddenly faded away

with the words giving relief to my heart,

silent. But loud.

The wounds that I dreaded all day

have healed my bruised body;

immensely safe and sound.

The blood dripping down my face,

have now vanished away with the rhymes

that I kept chanting around.

The heartache which

once kept me awake,

now allows me to sleep;

deep & profound.

The unbearable emotions have now escaped

that were once confined in cages

and relentlessly bound.

The voices that I’ve always avoided

like the summer time sun rays

have become regular melodious sounds.

The peace that I would usually crave,

finally,

found me in a serene arena,

far, far away

from the erratic crowd.

Blessed to have been lost & played

for this was the ultimate way;

my origin was actually meant to be found.

Forget Depression. Do your work!

I know! I know! Forgetting Depression? It’s easier said than done.

However, I’m not giving out any advice to forget it, but to act in disguise.

It is a well-known fact that thousands of people suffer from depression on a daily basis, but are too afraid to talk about it.

It takes away their enthusiasm and willingness to carry out day to day chores, pushing them harder into the pitfall of self-destruction.

Let’s see.

You are assigned a task at your work, or school, with a certain deadline, but you just can’t gather the energy or courage to start it.

Why? Because you think you are not capable enough to do it.

Well! Here are 4 easy ways to jump off your comfy bed right now to the worktable and complete the task you’ve been procrastinating about.

1. Stop Self-loathing

Before you even start with the negative self-talk, please stop!

Think about it – the person who gave you the task wouldn’t have assigned it to you if they didn’t confide in your potential.

It’s okay if you take longer than others to do something easy.

It’s okay if you feel down and need some time to relax. Take it. But don’t bash yourself for something you have no control over.

Accept that you are depressed and need to work hand in hand with it and get a hold on your life.

Keep yourself motivated.

2. Speculate the Setback

Look out for the obstacles in your way.

What could possibly make you run away from doing your work? Less time? Or unawareness about the task?

In most cases, you love the job. But the only major setback in this case is YOU – Your excuses. Your issues. Your procrastination.

Depression makes you want to run in circles meanwhile waiting for someone to stop you and hand you a glass of beer. It’s complicated.

Don’t let your setbacks make you forget why you started.

3. Divide and Rule

Break down the big task into smaller ones and accomplish them one by one at a time.

Suppose, you have an assignment for work, which is about 10 pages, but you are too depressed to even start.

What you can do is, write one page on Introduction first, then treat yourself for accomplishing it.

This will not only provide you with a sense of accomplishment, but also make it more fun.

Who says you must finish it in one go?

Do as you please, with your own pace, because that’s what makes you – YOU. But make sure to complete it before the deadline.

Give yourself enough credit for trying.

4. Remember the Outcome

Never start anything without considering the results.

What if completing the assignment makes you feel content in the end? Or completing the project brings you one step closer to your promotion or big raise?

You’ll work harder to achieve these results, won’t you?

Always remember that there are people dying out there to get the opportunity that comes free to you. Please appreciate it and give your best.

To sum up –

Just be yourself. Understand your reasons for the unwillingness to perform. Work on them while taking short breaks, if needed. Plus, don’t forget the amazing rewards.

I hope you pick yourself up before falling into the darkness instead of waiting around for someone else to do it.

So, go on and START! 🙂

Words.

Originally posted on Jan 15, 2020.

I thought, you might want to read this as I’ve been talking with writers who are feeling the same way like I did when I wrote this.

A day of bad writing is always better than a day of no writing. – Don Roff

This was one of the highly inspirational quotes about overcoming writer’s block that I came across while searching for a push for me to write. It’s been quite a long time that I haven’t written something worth reading.

As a matter of fact, the ‘Add Title‘ block is staring at me with a ridiculous smile, mocking me for my unawareness about the subject I’m trying to write about. But for now, let’s not think about a topic, and just focus on letting out some emotions.

Over time, constantly blaming my schedule for being unable to write had become my favourite excuse for getting out of ‘please write more’ requests. Maybe because I could say it, hoping no one would judge me for my inability to scribble.

After all, opting disguise over ranting has always been my motto in life.

I would, like anyone else, act as if everything was fine even when it wasn’t. All the pretentious smiles when the heart kept bleeding inside.

I wonder who taught us to fake our feelings when we could just be real and make our life as simple as it could be. But who am I to complain? I’m one of the culprits too.

I remember strolling on the terrace back home, believing life was beautiful.

Merely looking at the stars, admiring the moon and feeling the cold breeze was my pure delight.

I was smitten by the view of evenings turning into night, the raindrops escaping the overcast sky, and the warmth of the sun rays falling on my face in winters. That’s what peace was for me.

I was an unconfined early morning bird which kept chirping irrespective of the number of people listening.

I was least bothered by what words I used and which feelings I expressed.

But now, I see people building up their expectations about me and my writing. They tell me to showcase the so-called “talent” that I have.

But how will they know that it’s not a talent? It’s not a power. It’s just pure love. And we don’t brag about love.

We can only feel it. And if you can feel the power of words, then you possess a talent worth sharing.

The life that I am living right now is no less than a luxury. No no.. not what you think. No big bungalow, black Maserati, or diamond rings. I don’t need materialistic things to make my life complete, of course. I’m royal in my own way.

I’m royal in the writers’ world.

Having millions of thoughts, thousands of words, hundreds of stories, and a truckload of feelings are my treasured possession.

Then, why would I surf the internet for motivation to write?

Well! I don’t need a reason to write for myself but the will to pen down words publicly.

Anyway, I found a way to cope up with this –

Keep Writing, No Matter What.

I’ve always had my doubts about posting my work because I used to think that nobody can understand me.

But then, I found a soul mate who continuously motivated me to write and became a reason for my immense love for words; my human diary.

However, I’ll talk about that person some other day. And for today, I conclude my ‘bad writing’ with a quote that I hope we all can live by.

A writer who waits for ideal conditions under which to work will die without putting a word on paper. – E. B. White